6 short-cuts in consciousness that are ruining your life

Your consciousness is your operating system. It is the information that you use to interpret the data that you receive from your senses. It is the hologram of the world that you create in your head. It is you in essence....

.... and it's wrong.

But knowing the common reasons how and why we are wrong is a good step towards improving our lives generally. Here - in no particular order - are my top 6 reasons why many of us are architects of our own misery.

1.  Emotional conclusions

When someone gets hurt, it is easy to feel guilty if we were not around to help them. This feeling of guilt is perfectly natural, but the short cut is to believe that because we feel guilty, then we must BE guilty. This trait can cause us to hang on to all kinds of regret for decades.

2.  Memory filtering or bias

There are people who are very good at remembering all of the time that they failed, but ignore all of the times that they were successful. These people find it hard to do anything ambitious or positive, choosing to avoid risk instead. 

3.  Jumping to conclusions

Making huge leaps of logic are a classic mental short-cut. For instance someone who feels ill may think that if they call in sick, the boss will fire them and they won't get another job and they will end up on the street. 

4.  Thinking in extremes

You don't just want a drink. No, it has to be triple sweet, skinny, mocha, choco, caramel bucket of latte with nutmeg on the top. There is nothing wrong with wanting the best every now and then. But if you simply must be the first, or have the very best or the biggest of everything, you are going to live a miserable and unfulfilled life.

5.  Generalising

"All women are...", "All men are...", "I'm always......", "Life is always...." It's wrong. Need I say any more?

6.  Labelling

Giving people labels is a sure sign that you also label yourself. The media is very good at using labels to imply opinion. The Taliban were known as 'freedom fighters' when Russia occupied Afghanistan. Now, the west are occupying, they are called "Insurgents" or simply "Terrorists". Are you giving yourself or others labels? Are you talking to yourself in a positive manner? The labels you use will give you a clue.

Pay attention to your thoughts. Think about the generalisations you make, the conclusions you jump to, the labels you use, your inflated needs and the bias your memory holds. Because without you paying your consciousness any attention, IT may be running away with YOU. And, the outcomes from such a mind are rarely good for you.

Have we got it wrong about water?

There is a very famous health tip to drink at least 8 glasses of water (or two litres) a day. But is it right? Do we really need that kind of volume of water?

Last year, a group of Australian scientists managed to prove that hydration was less important for performance than people previously believed. During exercise some athletes were given high fluid replenishment. Others were given none or very little. But they did this by rehydrating athletes intravenously, so they could not possibly know how much they were getting. The results were staggering. Hydration had no affect on performance at all.

This experiment was on the back of some marathon runners and members of the military over hydrating and getting hyponatremia - a condition where too much water reduces the amount of sodium in the body to dangerous levels. 

So is the 2 litres a day rule correct?

No.

There are too many variables to tie your consumption down to an arbitrary amount. Your body will use more water when you exercise. You will need water if you are under stress or having to think hard. If you have a nice, easy day, you are likely to use far less water. Your food has variable amounts of water in it, depending on diet. 

Fruit and vegetables all have good amounts of water. Tea and coffee also have water in them, and also count towards rehydration. The climate also has significant affect on your need for water for temperature regulation. So making people stick to an arbitrary amount of water is not only impractical, but also possibly dangerous.

Funnily enough, your body has a brilliant system for measuring the levels of hydration - it's called your thirst. If you drink when thirsty, you will keep yourself in tip top health. This manic glugging of water was brought out by scientists who had proved that the body had started to dehydrate before people felt thirsty. Now recent discoveries are showing that the body can tolerate levels of dehydration without any dip in performance, and that it is very good at regulating itself through the sense of thirst.

The latest advice is to drink when you are thirsty - not out of habit or vanity.

So who really benefits from 2 litres of water consumption a day? 

The bottled water companies, that's who.

Why is posture important?

One of the mainstays in Tai Chi practice is the correction of posture. When I first started studying Tai Chi, I was frustrated by the fact that my Teacher spent so much time stopping the class and going around each student, correcting their posture. I wanted to learn about the self defence. I wanted to get to the secrets and inner workings of the art - not playing around like that.

Over the years, I have come to understand that correct posture and alignment is not only a core requirement of Tai Chi, but also a medical necessity.

Correct posture enables you to use your body swiftly and efficiently, without excess strain. It allows you to transmit power to every part of the body without injury:

Correct posture also prevents chronic conditions like Hyperkyphosis. When you are correctly aligned, you are much less likely to get whole host of complaints like back/neck pain, muscle fatigue, headaches, carpal tunnel syndrome, ankle, knee and hip problems. Poor posture also results in compression of the internal organs and wasting away of important muscle groups.

People with Hyperkyphosis (a hunched posture), are 2 times more likely to die from lung problems and 2.4 times more likely to die from Atherosclerosis than those with normal posture. Hyperkyphosis sufferers are 1.44 times more likely to die of any cause than those with healthy posture.

So the answer is clear. Posture is vital for every aspect of Tai Chi, and also for extending and enhancing quality of life to it's optimum.

See you at the class,

Richard

Why is Tai Chi done slowly?

It is one of the fundamental dichotomies of martial arts - why do we have to practice Tai Chi slowly? When I first started training, a number of my friends were curious. Some were downright derogatory. 

They could not rationalise the slow, contradictory elements of Tai Chi with the realities of fighting and self defence. To the layman, it must seem unusual to move so slowly. So why are the movements slow?

The answers are more complex than those implied from first impressions. Slow practice from a beginner's perspective allows them to feel their balance, posture and the transfer of weight between the feet. As you get further on, the slow movements allow you to condition the strength of the legs and to relax the muscles that you are tensing unnecessarily, lowering your centre of gravity and creating a stable frame.

Further on, the slow movements allow you to feel the force as it is transferred into, through and outward in a spiralling manner through the body. Slow movements with partners also reinforce this spiralling, and teach you to become sensitive to your opponent's strength, balance and intention.

Contrarily, you can also perform Tai Chi quickly. There are special sets in Chen style Tai Chi that are intended to be done quickly, known as Cannon Fist. They are for advanced students who have learned the correct movement and know how to relax properly. The required quality of strength, posture, movement and relaxation for Cannon Fist can take much time to perfect. But once acquired, it's never forgotten, and can be done well into old age.

The simplest exercise is the best

Often I am asked, "What is the best exercise I can do when I only have a little time to spare?"

There are a number of options - 8 Pieces Brocade, 5 Animal Frolics, Wild Goose Qigong, perhaps some of the shorter Tai Chi forms. But by far the highest benefits to effort ratio, are the Silk Reeling Exercises (or Chan Ssu Gong) of Chen style Tai Chi .

Silk reeling involves the shifting of weight between the legs, in combination with spiralling movements of the arms and legs. It improves the posture, loosen the 18 joints and increase the body's natural range of movement. 

The name - silk reeling - is used to describe the quality of movement - like a weaver unravelling a cocoon of silk. If the movements are too quick or jerky, the silk snaps. Once this unending flow is fully understood, the movements become beautiful, powerful and deeply beneficial.

These movements increase the secretion of synovial fluid which lubricates the joints, keeping them supple. People who have been practising silk reeling have reported better coordination and an opening up of shoulders, back and waist. Silk reeling is also a Tai Chi fundamental requirement for self-defence. The Chan Ssu principles should be inherent in every aspect of the movement from posture to posture, circling, spiralling, opening and closing, advancing and retreating, powerful like a rolling ocean. 

Happy New Year

With the commencement of a new class in Macclesfield, moving out of adult education, 2014 holds much promise. I am genuinely excited by what the future holds for us all. Recently, I have had the feeling that all of the last 16 years of work is starting to come to fruition. 

I hope you all have the same feeling of optimism that I do. With this in mind, I would like to take this opportunity to wish everyone a happy, peaceful and prosperous New Year.

All the best,

Richard

The most important lesson in self defence

I am often asked about the most important aspect of self defence. There are 8 basic powers in Chen style Tai Chi (Peng, Lu, Ji, An, Kai, Lie, Jou and Kou). There are also 38 different tactics to be employed. However, it still surprises people when I say:

"The most important strategy in self defence is that of walking or running away."

A successful life is a long and happy one. Therefore, the fundamental goal of all martial arts is self preservation. The most basic of self preservation skill is the ability to avoid or mitigate risk. Corporations all over the world spend enormous amounts of money, employing people who predict risk and plan the best way of avoiding it. Why shouldn't we as individuals learn from that? Why should so many people prefer to duke it out?

Purely and simply, it's ego. Throughout the years, how many fights would have been avoided, if one or more sides just admitted that they were wrong? How many people would have not chosen violence if they were comfortable in their own skin, so they did not need to prove themselves with their fists?

Banish your ego, and you will find the stakes of every disagreement dropping significantly, where a few choice words or walking away is all that you need.